The point

"God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life." Anyone who has been around for long enough must realize that the way these words are defined are probably not done so in the way the recipients of these words initially expect.
What I am saying is this. While these words are very true and exactly right,  the Christian path is hard work.  We are to strive after holiness while we live in a culture that doesn't.  We are the odd ones.
Life with God is wonderful,  but it is a lifetime of fighting against sin and our own passions.  Life is bootcamp.