Many people spend a great deal of time, energy and money in
an effort to direct their lives the way that want their life to progress. The
trouble with this approach is the presumption that we think we know best,
usually basing our desired path on what we find most appealing, most
satisfying, and often times, what is easy.
There is
an interesting balance that is taking place in all of this. Someone will work
very hard to convince themselves that some things are true and some things are
not true. In short, this is about deception. We deceive ourselves and we
attempt to deceive others. The sad fact is that we know our weaknesses, our
sins, and the true state of our heart and soul.
It is
safe to say that most people are concerned about what others think about them.
They will lie to themselves and they will lie to others to create a picture
that they and others will find appealing. When it comes down to it,
self-deception and the deception of others is about selfishness.
It is
wise to step back from your current path, question what it is that you are
doing, what you are saying, and the image you are trying to create of yourself.
It is also wise to find others who are wiser than you, more experienced than
you, and are willing to be honest with you about how you are living your life.
Do not presume that you know best,
do not think that you are beyond reproach. Learn to critically assess yourself,
work to find the best in others, and honestly recognize your weaknesses, your
sins, and work on these rather than criticizing others for their sins. The man
who is critical with himself is the man who will find the path to holiness. Do
not downplay your sins but rather acknowledge them for what they are, and what
they are doing to you and the purity of your heart and soul.
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