In what categories do we
think? Do our lives revolve around the
immediate or the eternal? Is our
decision making driven by what others think or by the life of the church? Are our interests moved by our flesh or the
Spirit?
It seems that most of these things
are driven by habit/by what we've been taught, rather than with understanding,
which is unfortunate. In living only by what we've been taught, we are most
likely living by our feelings. Most people have a connection between heart and
upbringing, romantically modified or not, and that can lead to directing our
life simply by "that's the way we've always done it."
I should articulate this a little
further. The problem is not "doing things that have always been done that
way", but doing things without knowing why. It's about action based on understanding. I
won't go so far as to say that it's wrong, but instead can say that it won't
lead to long term good. Proverbs encourages us to strive after knowledge and
understanding, not to blindly act.
A great place to start is to simply
start asking yourself the question, "Why?" about anything and
everything. The wonderful thing about the Church is the foundation that exists
for all we do. We don't rely simply on tradition for traditions sake. Everything we believe and practice has been
handed down to us by Christ, the apostles, and the direction of the Holy
Spirit. So we can say we follow
Scripture and tradition because these things have been given to us.